School Clothes...Or Something Like That

Apparently Adam is a returning graduate and Laura Ingalls has taken to wearing black leotards.

How I'm Doing

Slow but steady.

It's been an insanely busy few weeks. I usually am pretty good at not overloading my calendar, but add in a few unexpected doctor's appointments, a holiday, and just life...I'm tired.

BUT, God's unsurpassing peace has faithfully been quieting my heart, I've been exercising and sticking to my food goals, the important things have gotten done (though my house is in need of a serious cleaning), I survived my first mammogram and heard the word "benign" (Thank you, Jesus), I just got 2 really good and long nights of sleep, and I lost 8 lbs.!

Some tidbits from MADE TO CRAVE by Lysa TerKeurst that have been resonating with me:

Define your week by obedience, not by a number on a scale. The scale does help measure our progress, but it can't tell us everything.

We will hear careless comments along the way that will threaten to crush our spirit. We can literally say to a comment: "Are you true? Are you beneficial? Are you necessary?"

We are never supposed to get the satisfaction our souls desire from our looks.

How many times have I claimed to be a woman of faith but rarely lived a life requiring faith, God's faith, to see something through?

Our flesh buys right into Satan's lie that it's not fair for things to be withheld from us. So we bite into the forbidden fruit and allow Satan to write "shame" across our heart...having a pity party was a clue I was relying on my own strength, a strength that has failed me before and would fail me again...compromise built upon compromise equals failure. Instead, resisting temptation [food, or otherwise] allows promise upon promise to be built up in my heart, and that creates empowerment. [God's power at work within me. His power made perfect in my weakness, a reality.]

Don't mistake skinny for healthy...being little doesn't make a person any more happy or faithful or joyful. The struggles are the same (or at least similar), just in a different size package.


Onward. :-)

Recalculating

I've been wanting to post an update on the 30 day challenges I set for the year back in January. But blogging has fallen by the wayside in the last few months. Things have come up that have been given precident. Things like broken elbows, for instance. :-)

Each month I've tried to concentrate on the particular challenge, and though I didn't meet my goals exactly, it was still beneficial. My husband really appreciated February's encouragment Post-It notes and I noticed the exercise really influenced my words and attitude toward him. Win, win! However, I've been sensing that I need to make my goal for January my only goal for awhile. When I'm taking care of my body everything else just goes better!

The hubby has recommitted to getting up early to exercise too, so that helps me greatly. I'm still working on strengthening my knees by walking, especially while the temp's are in the 30's and 40's before dawn. It's easier on the joints and I don't get shin splints as much.

I have a tangible goal in mind too.

This.

Later in the summer Pete and I are traveling to Poland for his brother's wedding. And this is Morskie Oko, a set of glacial lakes in the Tatra Mountains along the southern border with Slovakia. It's a 2 hour hike to the top.

I've also picked up my copy of MADE TO CRAVE by Lysa TerKeurst again. I had read through it last year, but not quickly, so my attention wasn't as concentrated. I asked my mom to read through it with me this time, 4 chapters a week with a phone call to discuss it on Fridays. I needed the accountability and momentum of reading it with someone.

I've set some very attainable food goals too, though regular exercise is what I feel I need the most. BUT, by limiting my carbohydrates and choosing whole grains, piling on the fruits and veggies, reaching for a handful of almonds for a snack, and limiting my sugar, I'm hoping to shed pounds that way too.

All in all, I just want to be healthy. I want to take better care of the body the Lord has blessed me with. I want to be an example of discipline and self-control for my children.

Onward. :-)

Just Another Day...

...of enjoying the uniqueness in my two babies.

My blue-eyed, independent, competitive, attention-lovin', service oriented girl...

...and my brown-eyed, detail-oriented, sensitive, action packed, affectionate boy.

Thankful to be their mama.

Just Like Daddy

Adam looked so cute yesterday with his play work goggles pushed up above his forehead, his tool belt stuffed with hammer, wrench, screwdriver and ruler. He is into all things handyman these days. I wish I would have gotten a picture!

BUT, later on when Pete was playing grease monkey, Adam quickly joined him and I did snap a few shots.

Hmmm, maybe this is to fit together like this?

I see this coming in handy someday! (Love the tongue sticking out!)

Book Club

Some of you know how giddy I've been about the book club I just joined. Seriously giddy!

So far we've read and discussed VEILED FREEDOM by Jeanette Windle, and THE HUNGER GAMES by Suzanne Collins. The goal is to read a variety of genres and to evaluate them from a Christian viewpoint, though many titles may be secular. We want to be stretched by good literature, to be educated, and to sharpen one another as we interact with varying subjects.

You may remember VEILED FREEDOM on my "What I Read in 2009" post--if so, I'm impressed! You're as sharp as a tack!

It wasn't my favorite but it fits the category of my favorite kind of book, if that makes sense.

It succeeded in getting me to think deeply about Western culture, Christianity and Islam, missions/humanitarian efforts, and the war in the Middle East. And because I thought it would provoke a very interesting discussion, I suggested it as a book club selection. (You can read my initial review here.)

A sequel was released last year called FREEDOM'S STAND, and so I decided to pick it up at the library since we had just discussed the first book and it was fresh in my mind.

On a scale of 1--poor, 2--fair, 3--good, 4--excellent, and 5--superior...I'd give it 2.5 points. (VEILED FREEDOM would get 3 points.)

The first book brought up so many interesting and factual issues, but it also contained a maddening array of military acronyms that befuddled me. While reading it a second time for book club I wrote them down and it made a huge difference. What I really appreciated was how Windle articulated a Muslim wrestling with the truth about Jesus Christ meanwhile contemplating shaheed (martrydom). She truly helped me to understand what could bring someone to the point where that would seem desirable. I could feel true compassion for him.

In FREEDOM'S STAND, the author continues the stories of the three main characters, but again she doesn't wrap everything up in a nice neat package by the last page; also something I appreciate. This sequel deals heavily with the persecution of believers of Christ, has minimal acronyms, and ellaborates further on the intricacies and challenges non-governmental organizations face in regions such as Afghanistan. And continues to challenge our Western mindset of going into a region thinking we have all the answers.

There is to be one more book in the next year or so, making this a trilogy. I think I'll pick it up, just to see where she goes with the storyline, but will wait until the library makes it available.

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THE HUNGER GAMES by Suzanne Collins has been getting so much attention, it's been on the New York Bestsellers list for over a year, and now there is a movie coming out in about a week.

I do not read science fiction/fantasy. I do not read teen fiction. I occasionally venture into "tame" suspense.

If not for a friend's recommendation (who also fits that bill) where she told me "you HAVE to read this" I wouldn't have given it another thought.

I have rarely read a more suspenseful, can't put it down, have to seriously plan what night I crack open the cover because I won't get any sleep until the last page, book than this. And it's not super long--374 pages with a good amount of space and somewhat large font that whizz by quickly. I got through it in 5 hours.

If you read a synopsis of this title, you'll wonder if I'm off my rocker, because it doesn't seem promising. Not to people who read similar titles as I. It seems like it would glorify violence. There is a love triangle. It's futuristic. Meh.

But Collins succeeds in raising many points of discussion about what our society condones, how we've become desensitized to violence, our cutthroat mentality, along with many other themes that made for an excellent book club discussion. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

I'd give this book a 3.5 though for a few reasons:

1. It's a book written for teens, on a reading level so easy I thought Collins could have beefed up the vocabulary just a bit. It seemed dumbed down.

2. I admired certain qualities in Katniss, the main character, but found it hard to identify with her. She obviously showed emotion, but wasn't an emotional kind of girl. She was strong, but hard and jaded, despite being very young. I could sympathize with her, but found it hard to emphathize. (That is another discussion point intended by the author I think. What war does to the young.)

3. The pacing and suspense was spot on! That's what hooked me. However, with that comes the danger of reading so fast that you don't THINK DEEPLY about the things that matter. The things that I believe Collins wants her readers to think about and question.

4. As an adult, I appreciated the issues the author raised. I especially appreciated being able to discuss these things with my book club. But I'm going to make a generalization here. I think that what a teen will take away from this book (and trilogy) will be a fascination with how the love triangle is resolved and a surfacy condemnation of the violence and mentality of Panem. I venture to guess that most will get caught up in the hype and not stop to soberly assess...UNLESS THEY HAVE AN ADULT TO DISCUSS IT WITH. (who has read the book too!)

I'd still recommend it. But I won't be making a permanent spot for it on my shelf. If you don't feel like waiting for a copy from the library to become available, let me know. I have the whole trilogy to loan.

Ryan & Sarah's Visit

Yesterday afternoon we had them all to ourselves! The kids were soooo excited...and I was too, of course!

Ryan and Sarah usually visit twice a year from California, and since they miss spending Christmas and birthdays with their nephews and nieces, they bring fun gifts when they visit. This time they brought a beautiful Melissa & Doug stable with lots of horses and accessories. Natalia and Adam have been fighting over enjoying everything every waking moment since. :-)

They would be doing the same even if they had received separate gifts! *sigh* These lessons in sharing are so hard, but will yield good things!

Adam just told Uncle Ryan, "you're my best friend!" Melt.

Later that evening the whole family got together for dinner at Mom and Dad's. And so of course we had to attempt a family picture! Not sure which one to label as our "normal" one...I'll let you choose! :-)

And these two--oh my! I think we will have to chronicle the Adventures of Adam and Eli, because these boys are as thick as thieves! With enough crazy energy, mischief, and cuteness to equal a truly dangerous duo! Lord, have mercy.