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I'm realizing that no two children are alike. (I know...DUH!)
It's hard not to expect Adam to eat and sleep like Natalia did at this age. He is his own little person and will do things at his own pace. And I know for a fact that Natalia was an easy baby. I knew it then, and I'm realizing it afresh now.
I guess I just thought Adam would be passed the point (at almost 6 wks old) where he'd want to nurse every 2 hours round the clock. (That report a few weeks back of him going 3-4 hours was short-lived.) Sometimes I know he's just wanting comfort, but most of these past two weeks he's just plain hungry! And he's definately filling out as a result...especially in his cheeks. (Looking more like his big sister's baby pictures too as time goes by.)
I'm so grateful he's a good eater--just really tired. BUT, despite my bleary eyes it is a tremendous blessing. (especially because we're saving money by not having to buy formula!)
And as he grows I am astounded at the love I have for this little man of ours. How silly it was of me to worry I wouldn't enjoy having a boy as much as I have my girl!
His husky cry, the way he furrows his eyebrows like his daddy, his grins, grunts and coos, the way he scrunches up and snuggles into my neck, the sweet smell of his milky breath...and his cute little tooshie. :o)
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Gosh is he getting big already! And the cheeks! I think you're right in that they are starting to look like Natalia's. I'm glad that Pete had a day off. I'm always happier when Ethan is home; yes, to share the load, but also so someone else can enjoy Collin with me. BTW, how's Adam sleeping nowadays?
Ah, those expectations. It's impossible not to have them, but I'm glad you're quick to see that he's his own person. Boys generally have a heartier appetite than girls (at least mine did and I've heard from many other moms). It'll always be true if it's true now: the little man loves food. How perfect that his mom loves to feed people!
Thanks for your honesty... especially wondering whether you could love this little guy as much as your daughter. I definitely have thoughts like that. It is also good to be reminded that each child is his/her own little person. Sometimes it feels like the books tell us otherwise... like we can make a child be someone he/she is not. Thank goodness God gives us strength for each day!
I remember those long periods nursing. Right now those times seem pretty good considering the havoc the boys have been wrecking all over the house. But I know how hard it is!
He DOES look more like Natalia! I promise you, this phase will pass. I'm glad too that Pete got to spend a day at home.
Hi Mrs. Winkler, Your baby is adorable! We really miss you. Give Natalia a squeeze from me.
Alli Hevesy
This too shall pass! I know it's rough when you're in the midst of it, but God will give you His perfect strength as you go through each day.
Max had a similar schedule in the first month or so where it seemed like I was always nursing him at least during the day. Thankfully, he developed a like for his pacifier, which gave me a little extra time between feedings. Nursing is definitely hard work and requires a lot of perseverance, so kudos to you for hanging in there!
Now, I've never had a girl, so I have nothing to compare it to, but many moms say that little boys tend to be a little more "high maintenance" as babies. I would agree from my experience, but trust me, there's nothing like the special mommy-son bond that develops!
I'm praying for you!!
I love the picture with you and Adam on your lap...so sweet.
I've been so tired through this pregnancy (napping more than I EVER have before), that I find it hard to fathom someone waking me up every few hours at night....guess I'll have to get used to the idea soon enough though!
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